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Boundaries & Codependency Counseling

When relationships leave you depleted or uncertain

Boundary struggles often come from a good place—wanting to be caring, loyal, helpful, or safe. But over time, always accommodating others can lead to resentment, burnout, or losing touch with what you need. You may feel responsible for other people’s emotions, avoid conflict at all costs, or feel anxious when you try to say no.

At Selah Counseling & Wellness, boundaries and codependency counseling helps you understand these patterns with compassion. Therapy supports you in reconnecting with your needs, building clearer boundaries, and creating relationships that feel mutual, stable, and aligned with who you are.

Common signs of boundary or codependency challenges:

  • Difficulty saying no
  • People-pleasing at your own expense
  • Fear of conflict or abandonment
  • Feeling responsible for others’ emotions
  • Chronic guilt or resentment
  • Losing your sense of self-direction

How counseling can help Therapy supports clarity, autonomy, and healthier relational patterns

Together, we work to help you:

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Understand where patterns developed

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Strengthen self-awareness and self-trust

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Set clear, compassionate boundaries

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Tolerate discomfort without over-functioning

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Communicate needs more directly

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Build relationships that feel balanced

Start Your Growth Journey Today

Welcome to Selah Counseling & Wellness LLC, we look forward to working together. Let’s be honest, we’re into setting expectations here and the beginning of the therapeutic relationship includes A LOT of paperwork. While we acknowledge this initial process can be overwhelming, we encourage you to pace yourself and to reach out and call with questions or concerns. We sincerely believe everything in the next steps are necessary to evaluate an appropriate level of care and is in your best interest to review carefully. The more detail you provide, the more it equips us as we attempt help you in your therapeutic needs.

Find the Right Therapist for You

Several Selah counselors offer anxiety counseling and work with a range of ages and experiences. We’ll help match you with a therapist whose approach and availability align with your needs.